| Location | Great Yarmouth |
| Age | 16 years |
| Cause of Death | Asthma Attack |
| Date of Birth | 18/12/1990 |
| Date of Death | 13/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 13,820 since 05/10/2007 |
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Stacey died on the 13th September 2007 aged just 16 years old. Also sadly her unborn son Ryan was taken from us before he had a chance to meet us all. Stacey had only recently come to live in Great Yarmouth having spent most of her short life in Birmingham.
She was an inspirational daughter to Lisa and Colin, An everloving girlfriend to Michael and a very special sister to Charisse, Kirsty, Charelle and Colin.
This is a poem (one of many) that Stacey read to a few of us hours before she passed away.
Living a teenage life!
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Living a teenage life these days,
Can be different in so many ways,
for some there's mess and attitude,
for others there's offence and so much intrude.
But no matter what there all some sort of the same,
for not every teenage life is a game,
for some its a puzzle waiting to get solved,
for some its a secret thats never told,
But for me its a lesson that I have learned,
And alot of respect which I have earned,
So whatever you may think of these teenage days,
they can be so different in so many ways.
By Stacey Emma Louise Withey
***UPDATED*** 34 NEW PICS 19/04/08
***UPDATED*** NEW MUSIC 28/02/10
loving you immensely stacey and ryan xxxxxxx
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β ....β ....β Each Time The Stars Do Twinkle
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love and miss you so much.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
always in my heart and thoughts xxxxxxx
We go through life so often
Not stopping to enjoy the day,
And we take each one for granted
As we travel on our way.
We never stop to measure
Anything we just might miss,
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an angel's kiss.
A kiss that is sent from Heaven
A kiss from up above,
A kiss that is very special
From someone that you love.
For in your pain and sorrow
An angel's kiss will help you through,
This kiss is very private
For it is meant for only you.
So when your hearts are heavy
And filled with tears and pain,
And no one can console you
Remember once again.....
About the ones you grieve for
Because you sadly miss
And the gentle breeze you took for granted
Was just......... "an angel's kiss."
~Unknown
i love you stacey xxxxxxx
When you're feeling sad and so very down,
Mummy, please just look to the ground.
I know people tell you to look to the sky,
But I'm going to tell you exactly why.
When you look down and find that feather,
The one that's smaller and more beautiful than ever,
You'll know that's me sending you one of my wings,
For you to throw back or to keep with your things.
It's just a small reminder that I'm with you in your heart within,
Through the good and bad days and through thick and thin.
There will be days that you might find twenty,
And some days that you might not find any.
But it doesn't matter how many you find in one day,
Because all you have to do is close your eyes and pray.
I'm always with you -- I'm right there in your heart,
So, whenever you need me, remember we aren't apart.
A feather is an answered prayer,
To let you know that I'm there.
Birds do not shed feathers, but angels like I do,
And, Mummy, guess what -- one day you will, too!
God gave me feathers disguised as angel wings,
He said, "Drop them carefully and watch what they bring."
And each time I drop one carefully in the right place,
I watch that beautiful smile appear on your face.
So remember Mummy, every feather you find is from me,
And the only reason I'm sending them is to make you happy.
I'm okay where I am and I'm always watching over you,
One day we will again be together,
And that day might feel like it's taking forever,
So, when you're feeling down or feeling sad,
Look for one of my feathers so you don't feel so bad...
Oh dear God im hurting
I dont know what to do
Ive got no sunshine in my life
Everyday im feeling blue
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Ive got no strength inside me
Im feeling very weak
Some days when i am so sad
I just cant even speak
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I sit alone in silence
I wonder all the time
If i had magic powers
I would turn back time
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Id turn back time
And stop the clock
To the happy days with you
For there would be more sunshine
And no more feeling blue
love you sweetheart with all my heart good night my angels xxxxxxx
i miss you xxxxxxx
A grieving parent is someone who will never forget their child no matter how painful memories are.
A grieving parent is someone who yearns to be with their child but cannot conceive leaving their living ones.
A grieving parent is someone wh...o has part of a heart as the rest has gone with their child.
A grieving parent is someone who begs for relief from the memories which plague them and then feels guilty when they get it.
A grieving parent is someone who pretends to be happy and enjoying life when they are really dying inside.
A grieving parent is someone who can cry or laugh at the drop of a hat whenever they remember their beloved child.
A grieving parent is someone who feels as if they have just lost their child yesterday no matter how much time has passed.
A grieving parent is someone who fears for their remaining family because they cannot bear to have any more losses.
A grieving parent is someone who sits by their child's memorial and feels a knife stabbing their heart.
A grieving parent is someone who wants to help others who have lost a loved one because somehow others loss is theirs all over again"
my beautiful angel xxxxxxx
Hi sweetheart i wish i could stop time go back to this afternoon 2007 and stop time, i wish we didn't have to live through this time creeping up on us again, i hate that it was the last day we saw your beautiful smile and heard your beautiful voice, i so miss you stacey, time just makes it all that much more unbearable to have to live this life without you, i know your not completely gone i know you watch over us all, i sense you sometimes, just like the other night when i woke up after just dozing for a split second, carl was still watching telly, but i could have sworn, i saw a little boy sat in his pyjamas on the end of our bed, immediately i thought of ryan, whether it was or not or may it have been any of our angels it was lovely having you visit, i miss you all so very very much. give my Grandson a big birthday kiss for me please mommy, it maybe late before i write tomorrow but you definitely will not be forgotten, my love for you will never fade only ever grow, i am a proud mom and i am truly blessed to have had such beautiful angels in my life and to know one day i will be with you all again...i know if not only for a moment you will be thought of throughout tomorrow, and every moment and every thought is a wish we cannnot have.....every breath, every beat of my heart, every ache in my arms is my love for you and that will stay with me till ....the end of time, no because time doesn't stop, no matter how we all just get stuck in motion, it's like being froze just watching the world busy it self by you, but, for some reason, your stuck you can move you can talk, but your heart is lost, your mind is so empty but so full at the same time, some days i just feel so tired i just want to sleep and dream, i'd sooner be there with you, where were all together and i did say some days not all the time so don't you worry, any of you angels or mom, i love you stacey you truly are a wonderful beautiful inspirational daughter, i feel so proud to be your mum (lol) i could rip my heart out and give it to you but that still wouldn't be enough to show you how much i love and miss you, sleep tight munchkin and little man always and forever in my heart and thoughts till i come to you sweet dreams xxxxxxxx
It’s been while since last we spoke
But how that time has flown
My love for you does not lessen
In fact my love has grown
...I’ll keep a part of you with me
And every where I am you’ll be
I’ll keep the promises I made
My love for you will never fade
I know you’re watching over me
Your gentle ways live on
I’ll always feel your tender love
You’re still with me though you’re gone
You’re living on within my heart
A memory strong and pure
I carry deep within my soul
A love that will forever endure
I miss you so, I love you
And know that I’ll see your face
As soon as I pass through the gates
And join you in that heavenly place.
i love you with all my heart stacey
sleep tight till then my angel xxxxxxx
The other night as I lay sleeping, I saw them far away,
The heavenly steps, that would take me up your way.
I slowly stepped towards them, to climb up to you,
As I got to the bottom step, I looked up, I didn't believe it to be true.
These stairs would take me to heaven, to see your face again.
I gently put my foot on the first step, and started calling your name.
The steps seemed never ending, but I really wanted to see you,
So I continued climbing, giving it all my strength too.
I saw the clouds, slowly starting to open wide,
And there were heavens gates, on the other side.
I stopped in amazement, was this really happening to me?
The gates started to open, not much I could see.
Then a hand came towards me, and was placed upon my head.
I saw no face, but these were the words that were said:
" You may not see me, but I will always be near,
I am happy here, there is no pain nor fear.
I will never forget you, I will always be at your side.
Today you can not see me, for Earth is where you ride.
I will forever be there, to comfort you when you're low and sad,
But I will also be there, when you are happy and glad.
I know you don't forget me, in whatever you may do,
And one day in the future, this dream you had will come true,
But please do remember, I will always love you! "
When I awoke, I had a smile, every where I went,
For although I didn't see your face, I know you're happy, from the message that you sent ♥
Raphele Leyland
As though it was written from my very heart xxxxxxx
Since you left and went to Heaven,
All I do is cry
Since you left and went to Heaven,
All I wonder is why?
Tell me why that I can’t go,
And why was I left here?
A Mother should never be away,
From a child she holds so dear.
It’s such a helpless feeling,
There’s nothing I can do.
I cannot turn the time back,
To the days I shared with you.
But I can meet you in my dreams,
At our special meeting place.
In my dreams is the only time,
I get to see your face.
Copyright (c) 2011 Vicki Hansen
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